the worst thing

is never

the last thing

MEET BLAINE + LORI

Blaine and Lori have been working together to help men and marriages encounter the resurrection of Christ for more than a decade.

Blaine is a sexual addiction specialist who has helped thousands of men find lasting freedom from pornography and sexual brokenness. He is also a best-selling author and frequent speaker at conferences and churches nationwide.

Lori has served as a dental professional for two decades and assists Blaine in their work with married couples recovering from infidelity.

Their work at House of Resurrection was born out of Blaine's 20-plus-year addiction to pornography and sexual vice.

Not long after his colossal crash fifteen years ago, he was driving from Kansas City to Tulsa and heard a whisper in his heart.

 “I’m not going to give you a recovery. I am calling you into resurrection.”

In the years to follow, Blaine experienced a dramatic transformation in every part of his life. The old Blaine Bartel fully died. A new man rose from the ashes.

Out of this life-altering journey, Blaine and Lori developed the Katharos Model, which incorporates The Jesus Pathway to Purity.

Blaine and  Lori have four grown children and two beloved grandchildren. They enjoy anything that includes water, beaches, and boats.

house of healing


House of Resurrection is a non-profit residential healing center for Men, Ministers, and Marriages who are in crisis as a result of sexual addiction and infidelity.

It was born out of a vision to provide expert and affordable therapy for those in the church who struggle silently with the shame and hopelessness of sexual brokenness and addiction.

Our therapy is rooted in Christ’s teachings on heart purity and human flourishing — and is reinforced by addiction neuroscience.

Meet our team of therapists and ministers

  • BRENT SHARPE

    Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

  • DR. KEN MCGILL

    Sex Addiction and Marriage Therapist

  • KEVIN NEIMAN

    Licensed Sex Therapist and Trauma Coach

  • Lori Bartel

    Marriage Counselor

  • STUART HOOK

    Sex Addiction Therapist & EMDR Specialist

  • DAVID CALVERT

    Licensed Marriage Counselor

  • MELISSA ELGUERRA

    Spousal Recovery Therapist

  • BISHOP ED GUNGOR

    Founding Bishop, Order of St. Anthony

  • MATT NELSON

    Pastor and Church Planter

  • LEE MARTIN

    Pastor and Men’s Ministry Specialist

  • RUSTY GUNN

    Pastor and Church Planter

  • BRAD FARNSWORTH

    Pastor and Church Planter

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